Karen and Thomas wedding lunch @ Cafe Sydney
Thursday, 26 May 2022
What happened that day?
- I still had a fear of seeing Elaine outside of Custom House. She saw me and said ‘Look at you, you look gorgeous.’ I was put at ease. I stopped feeling nervous anymore.
- Duabo wanted a selfie with me
- I didn’t say hi to Zibode for fear of him giving my parents a hard time?
What were my struggles?
- Trying to choose good and not bad
- Trying to see the best in people and not the worst
My birthday lunch @ Kindred
Saturday, 28 May 2022
What happened that day?
- Jen threw my present to me and walked away to hug Maya instead of me
- I chocked when making a speech thinking Jen hated me
What were my struggles?
What got me through the whole child traumas?
Just gratefulness. Being grateful of what I have helped me get come through and get over my anger. I always think I am an improved version of my parents. But I am not. I could never be as good as them. They sacrificed their lives to raise me. This is something that I could never measure up to.
How to inspire the best in people?
- First thing first, nothing is ever about you
- Keep quiet and listen unless you have something nice to say
- When sharing your story, then the story must add value to the conversation or something people don’t already know and they need to know