I am not a monster. I am reasonable.

Karen and Thomas wedding lunch @ Cafe Sydney

Thursday, 26 May 2022

What happened that day?

  • I still had a fear of seeing Elaine outside of Custom House. She saw me and said ‘Look at you, you look gorgeous.’ I was put at ease. I stopped feeling nervous anymore.
  • Duabo wanted a selfie with me
  • I didn’t say hi to Zibode for fear of him giving my parents a hard time?

What were my struggles?

  • Trying to choose good and not bad
  • Trying to see the best in people and not the worst

My birthday lunch @ Kindred

Saturday, 28 May 2022

What happened that day?

  • Jen threw my present to me and walked away to hug Maya instead of me
  • I chocked when making a speech thinking Jen hated me

What were my struggles?

What got me through the whole child traumas?

Just gratefulness. Being grateful of what I have helped me get come through and get over my anger. I always think I am an improved version of my parents. But I am not. I could never be as good as them. They sacrificed their lives to raise me. This is something that I could never measure up to.

How to inspire the best in people?

  • First thing first, nothing is ever about you
  • Keep quiet and listen unless you have something nice to say
  • When sharing your story, then the story must add value to the conversation or something people don’t already know and they need to know